Dave Pitcher
I hold both a bachelor's and master's degree in Social Work and bring over 25 years of experience as a therapist. For 18 of those years, I also served as a counseling agency manager. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and an IASPT Psychosexual Therapist.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples navigate sexual intimacy and other relationship issues. I believe most people are capable of deeper connection and intimacy than they may currently experience. My approach is values-based, focusing on helping clients move beyond their challenges to create deeper, more fulfilling relationships.
I have a special interest and expertise in exploring the intersection of sexuality with personal values, spirituality, and religious beliefs. Whether clients are facing challenges around sexual functioning, identity, communication, or desire, I work to provide compassionate, evidence-based support that respects their individual beliefs and goals.
More About Me
A key part of therapy is building a relationship grounded in trust, safety, and understanding. Just as I take time to get to know my clients, I invite you to learn more about me, both personally and professionally. Click the categories below for a deeper look into my background, values, and experiences.
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I grew up in northern Utah and spent two years living in India and Nepal, an experience that deepened my interest in culture, relationships, spirituality, and the ways people navigate differences. I later lived and worked in Indianapolis before returning to Utah.
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I earned my bachelor’s degree in social work at Utah State University and my master's degree in social work from BYU, where I developed an appreciation for addressing mental health and relationship concerns within the context of clients' values and faith.
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Living in India for two years exposed me to personal and interpersonal conflicts related to family, marriage, culture, wealth, education, religion, and access to basic services. These experiences changed my perspective, deepened my appreciation for the complexity of people's lives, and ultimately led me toward a profession centered on helping others.
Social work gave me the opportunity to develop the knowledge and skills to help individuals, couples, and families navigate conflict, strengthen relationships, and create meaningful change.
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I have spent more than 25 years as a mental health therapist, including 18 years as a supervisor and counseling agency manager. Working with individuals, couples, families, and fellow clinicians has given me a broad perspective on human behavior, relationships, and the process of meaningful change.
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Throughout my career, I have seen how sexuality can intersect with relationships, personal values, and faith. I became increasingly interested in helping clients address these concerns in ways that reduce shame while respecting what matters most to them.
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Sexuality & Spirituality
Helping clients navigate the intersection of sexuality, relationships, faith, and personal values.
Pornography & Sexual Behavior
Compassionate, evidence-based support for pornography concerns and unwanted sexual behaviors.
Desire & Attraction
Helping individuals and couples understand desire differences, attraction, and intimacy.
Intimacy & Relationships
Helping couples strengthen communication, emotional connection, and sexual intimacy.
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My work is grounded in integrity, kindness, respect, family, spirituality, intimacy, consent, and honest communication.
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Outside of my professional work, I enjoy spending time with my family, exercising, hiking, traveling, cooking, and exploring the arts.I have a particular fondness for international travel and good food—and have yet to meet a curry I didn't like.
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I have been married for 30 years, and my wife is one of my closest friends and most trusted advisors. We have five children, two cats, and family remains one of the most important parts of my life.
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My approach is integrative and relational. I draw primarily from attachment-based therapies, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Motivational Interviewing, and sex therapy models.
Rather than imposing a particular set of model or values, I work collaboratively with clients to understand what matters most to them and help them move toward healthier, more connected relationships.
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I will listen without judgment, help you make sense of what is happening, and work with you to identify practical steps toward change. I won't ask you to set aside your values or beliefs. Instead, we'll explore how those values can guide the work.